Interesting site...

http://yourguysxxxposed.blogspot.com/ (thanks to yy for telling me about the site)

For those over hormonalised amongst you gentleman, beware. Theres a grope group of ladies going around posing a cyber sex targets. What you get as you can see from the website is a rather humiliating experience. You get some weird ass situation that they put you in (the one about breast feeding is classical), that group of people laughing at you, and even worse, published on the website as a perv.

I for one never quite got the thrill of cyber sex. Whats the big deal about a bunch of words? Might as well read a book or something. Half the time the people can BARELY speak coherent english, let alone write well enough to be termed pseudo erotic. Us male species must be getting really desparate. Either that or evolution is screwing around with our sexual desires and hormonal rates.

This in a sense does make sense. Since there is obviously a lower men to women ratio, so mother nature kicks up our hormones a few gears to make sure enough pro-creation takes place. Thus, the already horny species of mankind is now even hornier!

Its pretty pathethic tho. With that lower ratio, you think that men would be able to get girl friends easier. Or wives even. Then they wouldn't have to resort to some internet sleaze and madame hand and her 5 daughters. Whats even weirder is when people who ARE married or who DO have girlfriends, still opt for the internet fling.

This is completely beyond my understanding! Is there some kind of thrill exchanging pornographic language with some stranger over the net. For all you know that person may be the ugliest person you will ever smell. Worse still. It might be another dude looking for kicks. I shudder to think of it.

Anonymous sex. A friend said theres something animalistic about it that is attractive. Something that is completely base and ... well dirty that turns her on. Yes. Occasionally there ARE women who actually turn up on the otherside of the fence. And no, I won't give names or introduce you. =P

She said that there was something attractive just being possesed by a complete stranger. Knowing that no emotions or feeling were involved. Just sex. That there was a kind of freedom. Before you go throwing names like 'slut' or anything else derogatory, understand that different people have different perspectives and needs. And please respect them even if you do not agree with them.

To me, the whole issue is a puzzle to me.At the tender... okay... not so tender age of 25, I'm pretty much exhausted hunting for a life partner or even a girl friend. And I definately can't imagine having sex with some one just for kicks.

What would you say after? What would you say before? Nothing I'm told. Just shut up and do your thing as she explained to me.

So no conversation, no cuddling, no kissing. Where the hell is the fun in that? This kind of contact is what reassures you and builds on your esteem. Imagine if you slept with some one and all they did was roll over for a smoke, then dressed and left. Or worse still. Left 100 bucks on the table and leave!

And this is anonymous sex we're talking about. Not even the cyber sex crap where the only contact you have... is umm... with yourself!

Puzzle puzzle puzzle. Perhaps people are a lot more desparate and have a lot lower self esteem than I think. What else could drive them towards a cyber shag, or an anonymous shag? A sense of adventure?

I would never ever consider it adventure to be honest. God knows what you can catch in this day and age of HIV and STDs. Condoms are 99% safe. Theres still that 1 freakin percent. A risk I rather take buying the lottery rather than finding my male bits falling off or worse.

Maybe I'm just getting old. Cyber sex? Can eat?